Instead of getting them a normal gift, try getting them some “coal”. A simple geode (available online or at many toy stores) painted black provides a fun yet rewarding gift to give to even the naughtiest boy or girl.

What special gifts are you giving your special someone this Christmas?

More than anything else you want your gift to show her how romantic you are. These sane and sensible ideas can help you a lot in your search for a unique romantic gift for your woman.

Jewelry: We have all heard the phrase “Diamonds are a girl’s best friend.” Nothing says “I love you” or “forgive me” like jewelry. Surprise her with an extraordinary ring, necklace or bracelet with a unique design and watch the glint of pride in her eyes. She will wear it proudly.

Plan an entire day: Show your woman how special she is to you by planning an entire day of different activities with her. You can start the day by serving her breakfast in bed with a beautiful red rose. After that you can take her to a theme park, go shopping or visit an art gallery. In the evening surprise her with a romantic candlelight dinner and watch a movie together. The perfect ending to a perfect day.

Personalized gift baskets: Gift baskets are great because each one can be personalized to match the lifestyle of the woman you love. They can also be filled with articles that she enjoys. Perfume, chocolates, teddy bears, jewelry, and her favorite foods are excellent fillers.

A Pet: If your wife or girlfriend is a pet person don’t hesitate to buy her one. A dog, cat or bird is a unique gift that she will appreciate. Don’t forget to consider whether or not she has the time and space in her home to maintain a pet.

Love message in a bottle: A very unusual and romantic gift. With a few basic materials and your imagination you can make one yourself. Or you can take the easy route and have it done professionally. Either way your message should be romantic and unforgettable.

Surprise Party: Organize a surprise party for her. Try to get all her friends to come and make sure she doesn’t find out you are planning it. She will appreciate the effort that you put into the party and it will show you love and care for her.

A nice belt: Buying your woman a belt that fits her wardrobe and personality will show that you pay attention to her. If she is active and casual buy her a sporty belt. Or if she likes to stand out in a crowd, buy her a more glamorous one.

Shopping vouchers: Most women are shopaholics and shopping vouchers give them the opportunity to feed their addiction. Vouchers create opportunities for them to spend the day shopping, visiting and trying on clothes with their girlfriends. Be careful that she doesn’t get the idea that you are giving her the voucher because you didn’t want to go through the trouble of giving her anything else. Explain your intentions when you give her the gift.

Hot Air Balloon Flight: A hot air balloon ride together will be a unique experience for you both. The memory of it will last a lifetime. She will be able to brag to her friends about how attentive and original you are. Don’t forget to bring along a camera to photograph your journey.

Try to be creative! For example, Becca has recently become completely obsessed with Isaiah so I got her a “I HEART ISAIAH” sticker. She hasn’t actually put it on her truck (I didn’t expect her to) but she still loved it! Pay special attention over the next few weeks and try to find something unique and meaningful that you can get custom made.

If you aren’t very crafty, you may want to see if anyone you know already has experience making pillows or sewing in general. If you just want to jump in and give it a try, a quick search at Google can steer you in the right direction.

While you are working on the pillow, try to keep it a secret from your partner. Most everyone loves surprises, and this will make a completely unexpected birthday, Valentine’s Day, Christmas, or anniversary gift for your favorite person.